Exes?

Typed by Amalina Fitri on 16.7.10

*sigh*


I've been hearing a lot of stories about people not being over their exes.

Even more than one friend of mine is having trouble with this. *sigh* Bukan plang aku malas kan mendangar masalahnya ah.. It's just that I don't see why the problems have to exist in the first place.

First of all, if you got dumped, you have to try and understand their reasons for dumping you... Durang kan bebas lah.. They don't have feelings for you anymore. They found another guy/girl (stupid reason).. Etc...

Then, lapas paham banar2 udah kenapa durang putuskan atu, the next step is to GET OVER IT..

Here's a DON'T:
- Don't keep contacting them. Apatah lagi mun durang inda melayan.. It just means that they DON'T wanna be just friends. They just wanna forget you and move on..

In the case of you being the dumper, kalau kamu atu kira kan putus skajap kah saja, then make it EXTREMELY clear that that's your plan.. Make it clear that you just need time for studies or whatever it is you're leaving them for... And if THEY don't understand, well, they should've read the first part of this blog post.. Lol.

 

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