Life as it is

Assalamualaikum.

I felt really angry at someone the other day and basically told him that I hated him. I got over it the next day and decided to just forget all about the guy and move on with my life. Tapinya udah atu, I felt kinda of guilty.

What right have I to be angry at another person?? I'm not perfect.. Semua jua urang buat salah, whether they realize it or not.. I always hate it when people get angry over stupid reasons. Inda ku tau lah a kalau sebab ku kan marah atu talur kah inda a.

People always get angry over unnecessary things. Sometimes it's just part of their nature. Aku nada hak kan bagi apa2 komen arah durang. What they do is none of my business. All I can do is to deal with the situation as best as I can.. Macam keluar topik plang aku ni... =.="

Anyway, my question is, cana kita kan tau alasan kita untuk marah atu reasonable atau inda? The problem is that everyone has different beliefs of what is accounted as reasonable and what is not.. And who's to say which is right?? Ada kita cakap tu nanti, "Skadar jua ya marah ani eh.." But maybe for that person, it's a perfectly reasonable reason to be angry.

All we can do is to learn to control our anger... But then again, kadang-kadang urang inda sadar yang ya tu marah.. Ugh.. So confusing~ T__T

So, here's a few tips to help you to control your emotions if you think you've got a real bad temper... Credits for these techniques - apa.org

i. Breathe deeply, from your diaphragm; benafas dari dada is not relaxing. Picture your breath coming up from your "gut."

ii. Slowly repeat a calm word or phrase such as "relax," "take it easy." Cakap balik2 sambil benafas dalam2..

iii. Use imagery; visualize a relaxing experience, samaada dari ingatan atau imaginasi...

iv. Nonstrenuous, slow yoga-like exercises can relax your muscles and make you feel much calmer. (Ooo... Religious cult!! XD)

Usually, angry people tend to curse a lot with plenty of colourful language. You get overly dramatic in your thoughts. Here's another tip from the same website:

Anda sedang berada di sekolah, menunggu ayahanda yang lewat menjemput. tiba2.. exkekasih datang menyapa anda.. bagaimana kah reaksi anda?

1. Baby sayang intan payung~
-Wth.. Apa ko panggil aku a? O_O

2. Pemarah jua baby ani.. Inda berubah2..
-What?? Sejak bila aku pemarah arah ko ani eh??

3. Awu wah.. Me tau me salah.. Me sakitkan hati you.. Soryy..
-Ani barutah ko kan cakap sorry? Antam tah biskita

4. Kenapa you sorang2 ani? balum balik?
-Nada~ Aku suka sorang2 bah.. Paham kah tu?.. Ertinya aku mo ko lari...

5. Me rindu you..
-Brigali sul mu a.

6. Sanang you lupakn me ah? Padahal dulu you janji inda tinggalkan me and lupakan me?
-Ko jua yang sanang2 mereplace aku... Aku pulang yang lupakan ko ani?

7. You buat me sengsara lapas you tinggalkan me.. You salah, you bertanggungjawab!
-Excuse me? Hahahahahha mua mu a!

8. Me tau kenapa you lupakan me. You ada laki2/bini2 lain kan?;
-Inda pun.. Like I said, ko yang skajap mreplace aku...

9. Banarlah tu? Siapa bf/gf baru you a? Apa istimewanya smpai me kalah?
-Majal banar si tamparan ani...

10. Me kan tampar tu laki2/bini2 aa, biar ia jangan kcw you lagi.
-Tampar tah pulang. Aku lagi inda tau sapa laki2 a. Mencari tah kau...

11. You masih ingat yang first time tani dating bawah pokok pisang?
-Prasahan ku the only place kita "dating" ani di mall ganya~ nada ku tenampak pokok dalam mall atu...

12. Me masih rindu bau perfume you, tangan you yang halus, pipi you yang chubby..
-Nada ku memakai perfume nya mu... And excuse me? Chubby? Ko ucap aku lampuh kah??

13. You mau go back sama me?
-Inda

14. You tau ka yang me ni bnar2 kan you?
-Ya kan? Inda nampak pun..

15. Me pernah hantar surat cinta arah you.. ada you bca? Ngalih me menulis tu..
-Adakan? Nada ku tau... Jaket ku mana? Dari masatu dah ku menunggu...

16. Nah, kerita babah kan tu, me buka kan pintu kerita aa, and bekenalan sama babah. hehe.
-Antah kau... Agatah ko balik kli eh.. Kana tembak ko karang, bukan aku punya pasal tu...

Assalamualaikum.

Surprise. Surprise. I couldn't resist posting one last time. I promise that this time, banar-banar yang ke-last!! I swear!!! My exam starts on Friday, for crying out loud.. It's Zimah's fault for giving me the idea to post this piccy here.

The piccy was taken after my traditional dance practice which was, I must say, syok banar... Not that I didn't enjoy it before but this week's practice was just really fun for me. I like~

Assalamualaikum.

Yesterday was the birthday of so many people! Like, apakan.. Lawa sangat kah tarikh kemarin atu?.. Lol! Sasak aku a~ Anyway... Who are these people born on this special day?

Okay, the only reason I'm blogging about this is because I get to bunuh dua ekor burung menggunakan seketul batu... As in, since there are a lot of people celebrating their birthday yesterday, it's not like I'm giving up a whole post for just one person..

Anyway, to people whose birthdays were yesterday, bukan saja empat urang yang kana sabut di atas, but to everyone yang terasa, happy belated birthday! Aku sedekah doa saja a. I'm flat broke at the moment.. Well, inda plang but yeah..

Assalamualaikum =p

I'm listening to Angel by Natasha Bedingfield at the moment.. On repeat.. It's just so awesome that I feel like sharing it with everybody ~_~